It’s so interesting how life evolves. I believe many us start out with general understanding of the needed concepts on how to navigate the boardgame of life.
I used to think life was pretty straightforward. Well actually, I still do. It’s just when our muck starts to show up from past conditioning, we then fear or bare witness to what we resist! That’s when “life” gets messy! Perhaps because, it’s NOT going the way you want it to, creating the feeling of lack or scarcity.
One major life lesson for me, is recognizing that many of us are just a bunch of walking wounded adult toddlers, hiding behind a mask of false platitudes.
While, many have mastered this slide of hand (hiding their true self), to an art form. For obvious reasons, fear of not being liked, and of course for intentional manipulation purposes. This need to hide their true self is extremely prevalent, especially when that certain someone needs something from another…for self-gain. So they then begin to “play” to the hand that can best serve them, all the while continuously hiding their true identity and intentions.
Sinister, yes. But hardcore reality!
For many years, I felt that “do good,” “be good,” and good things will be there to support you. I still believe today that there is a major realm of truth that runs through this philosophy. Keep your energy high, and yes, positive energy comes back! But this is a VERY simplified and overly basic aspect of the truth!
I have spent years learning, embracing, and understanding that we all carry different perspectives and visions in life. But even with all of this self-awareness, what never seems to sit right with me is how others choose to live. Possibly, I’ve been naively believing that that we all want the same thing from life, and that is RESOPROSITY! But that’s where I went wrong, because of people’s imbalance in certain areas of life, greed and control can much more fulfullling, than that simple word, RECIPROCITY.
It’s not about us all needing to like each other, but I absolutely draw the line at disrespect. When people show you who they’re…believe them!
At the age of plenty-nine, I have learned that life is really very easy, as long as I can stay in a flow state, and not a force state. Live in the space of “allowing” and “aligning.”
I always try to use my energy as a barometer of what is occurring around me. Number one, I choose to be around those who support me and instill strength.
Always making note of those who need to throw grenades. This may seem obvious, but really, it’s not. Many like to subtly reduce another by denying, devaluing, and dismissing them, sometimes just for their own entertainment. Whether it’s as simple as being dismissive or, worse yet, purposely devaluing; toxic people need an exercise court to sharpen their toxic skills and gain sadistic strength. See and believe who they are, and create space…a lot of it! Do not engage. In other words, DO NOT FEED THE ANIMALS!
The Constant Evoling Manifesto in Life:
- People Will Say and Do Shitty Things. I Have Been Guilty of this Myself at Times. The Difference is I Know What my Intentions Are. If Those in Your Life Don’t Make You feel Good…Find a New Friend!
- Warning…We’re Not Perfect, But Some Will Think They Are! All While Embracing the Fact That Certain Someones Will Never Admit to Creating an Unhealthy Environment. That Admission Would Be the Lowest Form of Existence for Them! So, ALL Fairness Goes Out the Window…Immediately, When You Encounter Them! Toxic is, is What Toxic Does!
- Your Real Tribe Will Be the Ones That Accept the Good and the Raw Moments About You. Their Objective (a Fellow Tribe Member) is to Never Shame or Make Anyone Feel Less, If They Do…Because Your Actions are Not Their Preferred Standard of Life. Then That’s Not Your Tribe! I’m All About Being Unapologetically Yourself. But, Manners Matter! So, Apologize to Them if Any Actions that Might Have Created Discomfort, and then Move On to a New Tribe! Those Aren’t Your People!
- Never Get Stuck in Victim Mode! Grieve for a Short Time and Move – On! Your Worth is Not Determined on How Others Feel!
- Lose the “Good Girl” and People Pleaser Disposition! Strive to Find Your Own Desires in Life, That’s What Brings Alignment! But Remember, Never Force…ALLOW Life to Bring You Circumstances That Support Your Visions and Desires.
- Learn to Embrace and Accept the Masculine and Feminine Parts of Who You Are, and How They’re Involved in Daily Living Choices. Trust and Allow in Life. We Cannot Control, How You Want Others to Be, and Interact.
- This is All About Self – Respect! Placing Yourself First, Securing Boundaries, Knowing Your Limits, and Especially Embracing the Fact to Know, When to Walk Away!
- Seeing, Embracing and Releasing Any and All Shadows that Prevent the Universal Support to Align You! A Very Simple Exercise to Release Unwanted Energies that Sabotage Our Destinies…See it, Feel it, and Recognize the Fear. Then Tell it, That it No Longer is Welcome Here, Your Free to Leave!
The End! xxx
