Masculine and Feminine energy is so much more than your gender and has little to do with your sexual preference.

Learning the importance of this specific philosophy has changed my life. As an artist, I even dedicated a 9 canvas series based on this principle. So, yes you should care! It can be a game changer.

Because this journal is not about taking deep dives into facts, that is what AI Chat, Chat GPT are for. But, more about the “Gail-ized” version of things. This somewhat complex topic concerns how all living elements have masculine and feminine energy. More specifically, these are personality traits, or think of it like as perspectives on how you choose to go about doing things in the world.

As I already stated, it has nothing to do with your gender at birth or sexuality. This is all about the direction of how you choose to carry yourself when dealing with situations…life stuff. Whether it’s your self-talk, a friendship, a lover, a work situation, or even family connections. How you respond and what you try to extract from a given situation is where your masculine and feminine energies begin and end.

TikTok has even created a concept of this philosophy, tagging it as “Black Cat and Golden Retriver Energy” with sexual relationships.

It’s all about knowing when to embrace your masculine and feminine energy. It may sound very easy, but unfortunately, many of us have it backwards and we revert to old patterns when we go into fear mode of losing something or someone. That’s when our “masculine mode” kicks in. Projecting energy of needing to control, versus sitting back in the more feminine energy of allowing.

Me, personally, the best lesson of learning and embracing how important it is to recognize the masculine and feminine energies. Came with so many years of efforting and trying. I’m not really into forcing something, it’s really not my vibe to begin with. But, I can see at times in my life, where I felt like I was pushing against the current of the river. This puts a female deep into her masculine energy or survival mode. This is not a healthy space for women to be based in, let alone stay there without awareness of how she is projecting her energy. This type of unawareness leads to creating blocks because choices are being created from fear and a scarcity state of mind.

When a female flows in and out of her feminine and masculine energy, that is the sweet spot. She uses her masculine energy to push back in areas of her life that feel unsure or unsafe and uses the all-in-important “boundaries” for protection. But rather, she should be maintaining and living dominantly in her feminine energy, living from flow, never chasing but allowing. Finding that right balance is a lot easier said than done. Like I said, when in fear mode kicks in (lack, loss, and scarcity), that’s when we all go into overdrive and try harder, forcing. When really, it’s about letting go!

xx gail