Welcome Besties, Beauties, and Badasses!

This site is all about leveling up your Life(styling).
I like to think of RTFR Mag as your emotional support blog, and I’m your vibe curator.
Life, Home, and Fashion (styling) posts are all about reminding us of the very simple aspects of reclaiming your own style and choosen desired expression. To me this is the very basis of HAPPINESS. When your able to own and curate what makes you feel good, versus what the status quo is reflecting back as the current look and feel.
Not all current styles especially when it comes to Fashion have a place in our closets. Learning to harness your style is everything.
Our expressions should be a fusion of relenvency of the current styles, along with an aspect of your desired branding.
Life, Home, and Fashion (styling) are all about reflecting to the world, that you own your style, space, and your stuff. They represent your soul’s desire and expression, but also the uniqueness of who you are. These expressions are very important to uncover and amplify to the world or at least to yourself!
LIFE/HOME/FASHION (Styling) Posts:
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If You Donโt Have Hatersโฆ Youโre Not Doing it Right!
If any gift comes with time, itโs the desire to live to the depths of my true self. I prefer to take up space rather than stay silent to keep the peace. For me, not being palatable, but authentic has proven to be a personal and quiet revolution. Being a scapegoat is not a victimโฆ
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High Achievers are Not Always the Best Optionsโฆitโs Medium Level Performers, Where You Find the True Essence of Success!
Who is Simon Sinek, and why should we care? Because of my widely shared obsession with YouTube I happened to click on one of his videos and found a voice of similarity, and instantly connected with his very simple philosophy. There have been so many โmotivational speakers,โ that come and goโฆ.and a small few thatโฆ
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Warning Label: ProvocateurโฆUnknowingly Provokes Others!
Life for many is strategic. While some see it as a chess match, I see it as more of a dance, flowing between moments of when you need to lead and times when you need to follow. As you move with that flow of life, you need to be aware of the importance of thatโฆ
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Sigma? Beta? Gamma? Alpha? A Formation of a New Sorority, or a Deeper Dive in Life?
The moment that I first heard about a Sigma woman, and all about how she sees life-I instantly resonated. It was as though I was just introduced to some sort of secret society, and they just shared a secret handshake with me. But let me be very clear, just because I completely resonated with thisโฆ
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Bravo, Bravo, Fโฆing Bravo, Toxicity Front and Center!
Iโve been a Bravo fan for years, and on one of the last shows of RHONY, a huge situation between Brynn and Ubah was aired. It was a very rare sightingโgaslighting at its finest! If you happen to also be a fan and watched what went down, Ubah, accused Brynn of basically sleeping her wayโฆ