Welcome Besties, Beauties, and Badasses!
This site is all about leveling up your Life(styling).
I like to think of RTFR Mag as your emotional support blog, and I’m your vibe curator.
Life, Home, and Fashion (styling) posts are all about reminding us of the very simple aspects of reclaiming your own style and choosen desired expression. To me this is the very basis of HAPPINESS. When your able to own and curate what makes you feel good, versus what the status quo is reflecting back as the current look and feel.
Not all current styles especially when it comes to Fashion have a place in our closets. Learning to harness your style is everything.
Our expressions should be a fusion of relenvency of the current styles, along with an aspect of your desired branding.
Life, Home, and Fashion (styling) are all about reflecting to the world, that you own your style, space, and your stuff. They represent your soul’s desire and expression, but also the uniqueness of who you are. These expressions are very important to uncover and amplify to the world or at least to yourself!
LIFE/HOME/FASHION (Styling) Posts:
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How to Find a Toxic Person in the Dark!
The title of this specific post sounds more like the beginning of a bad joke. But I assure you that when dealing with a toxic person it can be no laughing matter, and yes when dealing with someone like this, can make you feel like your groping around in the dark, trying to find the…
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Are You Gaslighting Yourself? Beware of Toxic Positivity!
Why are you gaslighting yourself? To combat self-gaslighting, it can be helpful to: Recognizing self-gaslighting is the first step towards reclaiming your sense of self and establishing a healthier relationship with your thoughts and emotions. Whenever you’re in the presence of someone who carries an opposing view to your own…others may perceive that as toxic…
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What Makes Up a Sigma Female…and Do You Identify as One?
The term ‘sigma’ is derived from the work of Dr. Jonathan Haidt, a psychologist who used the Greek letter ‘Sigma’ in his 2013 book ‘The Righteous Mind’ to describe individuals who don’t fit in with either group or individual categories. The ‘sigma’ label, initially referring to male behavior, is a subversive concept suggesting that some…
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I’m Not Here to Comfort Your Feelings…I’m Here to Be Honest!
Hey…Besties, Beauties, and Sigmas! I need a moment, tonight I went to an HOA meeting in the building where I live. A total of 6 people live in our building, so it was a small gathering. Well, as I shared my perspective on some issues that have been occurring, one of the other owners interjected…
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It’s Not Just You…or Them, It’s Both of You!
I don’t know about you, but when I’ve encountered a toxic person, it leaves my head spinning! Wondering first, “Seriously, did you just say that?” And second, “Wow, what a lack of awareness.” Not to mention the lingering, mind-fogging, rehashing of events or conversations that continues well after those encounters. Have you ever heard the…